Kya Hoti Hai Yeh Zindagi

Badi Jaani Pehachani Lagti Ho Tum,
Kabhi Badi Anjani Lagti Ho Tum,
Kya Bataye Tumhe Ae Zindagi,
Kitni Bemani Lagti Ho Tum,
Jeete Hai Jiske Liye, Usi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi,
Hazaar Khushiyan Hai Daman Me Per Muskurane Ke Liye Waqt Nahi,
Kabhi Hum Yuh Bhi Socha Karte Hai Ae Zindagi
Kya Hoti Hai Yeh Zindagi…

- Ritesh Modi

~*~ How To Be Happy ~*~

 

Take full
responsibility for your life.
Stop blaming others.
See yourself as the
cause of what happens to you.

Do things you like to do.
Don’t stay in a job you don’t
like.
Participate in life at the highest level you
can.

Stop
terrorising yourself with your thoughts.
Be gentle and kind and patient with
yourself.

Give yourself
the simple pleasures of life abundantly.
Wear clothes you feel good in, get a
massage etc.

Watch what you
say. Avoid self put-downs.
Stop being critical of yourself and
others.

Take care of
your body.
Give it exercise and good food.

Be willing to create a life-style that generates and nourishes
self-esteem.
Associate with others with high
esteem.

Acknowledge
yourself frequently.

Keep a diary of your successes and
accomplishments.

Avoid comparing
yourself with others.
Remember that it’s who we are, not what we do, that’s
important

Give yourself
permission to do nothing periodically.
Schedule time by
yourself.

Frequently take
deep breaths.
Discover the benefit and pleasure of breathing
fully.

Eat first class
frequently.
Don’t look at the right side of the
menu.

Stop trying to
change others.
Focus your attention on being the way you want others to
be.

Look into a
mirror regularly
and say “I love you, I really love
you”.

Stop feeling
guilty and saying “I’m sorry”.
See mistakes as valuable lessons and avoid
judging yourself.

Consciously
generate positive thoughts and feelings of self-love
in place of old thoughts
of inadequacy.

Be willing to
laugh at yourself and at life.
Stop taking yourself so
seriously.

Accept
compliments from others without embarrassment.
Don’t invalidate their
positive thoughts and feelings about you.

Be kind to your mind.
Don’t hate yourself for having negative
thoughts.
Gently change your thoughts.

Keep your awareness and your thoughts focussed in present
time
instead of living in the past or
future.

Acknowledge
others frequently.
Tell them what you like and appreciate in
them.

Invest money in
yourself.
Go to seminars, workshops and courses that develop your
talents.

Make a list of

10 things
you love doing and do them
frequently.

Treat yourself
as you would treat someone you really loved.
Praise yourself.

Author Unknown

~* Changing Your Thinking *~

By Changing Your Thinking,
You change your beliefs;

When you change your beliefs,
You change your expectations;

When you change your expectations,
You change your attitude;

When you change your attitude,
You change your behavior;

When you change your behavior,
You change your performance;

When you change your performance;
You Change Your Life!

Author: Unknown

~*~ Singing Waters ~*~

 

 

There are times the sun is hidden
Our lives are filled with falling rain
Yet God can see us clearly And His promises remain.

The rain God sends is cleansing indeed
He always knows how much we need
And singing waters gently flow Making every living thing grow.

Finally the sun shines in the lovely sky
All the clouds have passed on by
Once again God made the day bright
And the singing waters a beautiful sight.

Author: Glenna M. baugh

~*~ Power of Prayer ~*~

Our world today is filled with sorrow
So much heartache and despair
Many people feel forsaken by God
Because they forget the power of prayer.

God knows the burdens that we bear
He wants to guide us everywhere
But we seem to have forgotten He is there
And use our weapon, the power of prayer.

We must learn again how to believe
God’s miracles are great and rare
Trusting that He will always be there
Have faith and use the power of prayer.

Each day we will grow in strength and love
Holding on to God’s hand from above
Once again my life with Him I share
Because I believe in the power of prayer

Author: Glenna M, Baugh